Sense of humor The ability to appreciate humor and joke – an important trait of character that appreciates the male gender. Cheerful character, the ability to cheer up, laugh, laugh at yourself attracts guys. Excessive seriousness depresses. With such a girl it is hard for them to flirt, find a common language, start a conversation. But there must be some seriousness. After all, it is difficult to build a serious relationship with a laughter and a “plain woman”.